August osTEAo: The Fault In Our Scars - Dating and Cancer

In our latest episode of the osTEAo AYA podcast, Mia, Sammy, Gillian, Matthew, and Elise opened up about the often-overlooked realities of dating and relationships after undergoing cancer treatment, amputation, and significant changes to their bodies and self-perception.

Elise shared her inspiring journey of embracing self-love as an amputee and how it led her to a healthy, affirming relationship with her girlfriend. Similarly, Matthew detailed his struggle with identity and vulnerability after his diagnosis, ultimately finding strength in self-acceptance and forming a stable, long-term relationship.

The conversation also explored the emotional and physical hurdles of dating while living with or recovering from cancer. Gillian reflected on navigating relationships as a survivor with visible scars, and Mia bravely shared her story of dealing with body image struggles after chemotherapy. Sammy and Mia dug deeper into the emotional toll of past relationships where partners reacted negatively to their disabilities, emphasizing the importance of finding people who can meet them with empathy, respect, and understanding.

The key theme throughout the episode was the shared message of resilience, the importance of self-worth, and the transformative power of both romantic and platonic love. Whether it was Mia reflecting on being single and the strength found in friendships, or the group calling out harmful societal narratives about cancer, the episode provides a powerful reminder that everyone is worthy of love.

Perhaps most importantly, the episode highlights that healing is not a linear process, and love—whether romantic or platonic—can be a powerful part of that journey. Whether you're a survivor, a caregiver, or just someone curious about what love looks like beneath the surface, this episode offers a thoughtful and uplifting take on real connection.

🎧 Listen now to the full episode of osTEAo: The Fault In Our Scars - Dating & Cancer. Because your story matters. Your voice matters. And we're in this together.

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